“May God help us to be a little kinder, showing forth
greater forbearance, to be more forgiving, more willing to walk the second
mile, to reach down and lift up those who may have sinned but have brought
forth the fruits of repentance, to lay aside old grudges and nurture them no
more” –-Gordon B Hinckley
Forgiveness…. may be the greatest virtue on earth, and
certainly the most needed. There is so much of meanness and abuse, of
intolerance and hatred. There is so great a need for repentance and
forgiveness. It is the great principle emphasized in all of scripture, both
ancient and modern.”—Gordon B. Hinckley
”Somehow forgiveness, with love and tolerance, accomplishes
miracles that can happen in no other way.”—Gordon B. Hinckley
Many times I have sat contemplating my life and my actions
and I wonder, have I done anything that I need to ask forgiveness for? Most of
the time I have either been very good, or oblivious of how I have hurt someone.
People don’t always react strongly enough to tell they’ve been hurt. I didn’t
know why my son in law stopped talking to me after one comment I innocently
made till I heard his family’s history. I apologized and asked him to let me
know when I said something stupid instead of holding a silent grudge. Another time I made a comment about
something someone had made. I said it was interesting. UT- OH! I knew right
away I’d hurt her feelings but it took me a week to apologize and explain that
I really did like it and I really did find it was an interesting method she had
used.
On the other side of the situation, how easy is it to
forgive others?
This has been such a difficult month, no year. Remember the
church group last year who invited a young man to their prayer group. He prayed
with them, learned with them, and shot them. Could I have forgiven him, as the
congregation did?
And this month in Florida, when someone took his assault
rifle into a night club and
started shooting. randomly killing fifty; why, because he
didn’t like their lifestyle? Was it because he was mentally unbalanced? Was it because he thought he had a
cause to uphold? Can I forgive him? Not yet, I need to think about it more
Thomas S. Monson from the D&C teacher’s manual says,
“If any of us are imperfect, it is our duty to pray for the
gift that will make us perfect. Have I imperfections? I am full of them. What
is my duty? To pray to God to give me the gifts that will correct these
imperfections. If I am an angry man, it is my duty to pray for charity, which
suffereth long and is kind. Am I an envious man? It is my duty to seek for
charity, which envieth not. So is
it with all the gifts of the Gospel. They are intended for this purpose. No man
ought to say, ’Oh, I cannot help this; it is my nature.’ He is not justified in
it, for the reason that God has promised to give strength to correct these
things and to give gifts that will eradicate them (Millennial Star, 23 April
1984 260).”
I hope you have a blessed and forgiving summer.
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